Struggling with JOI AI Responsiveness

I’m struggling with JOI AI’s roleplaying and I don’t know if It’s me or the platform, so I wanted some input.

Basically, I’ve specified pretty well what type of interactions I’m looking for but even within the specified parameters it really seems to struggle to be… I guess I’d call it “proactive”. It feels like the progression of scenes is incredibly slow, the responses feel pre-scripted, kinda robotic. Often the responses are inconsistent or disconnected from the main thread, sometimes the just spirals into loops and I’m constantly having to push the conversation. Yes it’s kink related but its nothing particularly “out there”, certainly nothing dangerous or illegal. I guess I’m asking if JOIAI just struggles in certain areas (everything I’ve read seems to suggest it does well for my needs) or is the problem me… Do other people find JOIAI to be a good generative, responsive platform. If other people have had similar problems, what platforms would people suggest that are maybe better at driving scenarios forward proactively from the information they are given, or is this something all these platforms still struggle sometimes struggle with.